“Friend” each character of this magical word has a profound meaning

 

“F”-“Fight,Fun,Faith”-True friends fight; inevitable. But then that are over before you even know it that end up bringing you all the more closer. Friends who are just for namesake, can let an argument go unresolved and ruin your day but your bestie would argue or fight wrathfully, then take a breather to calm down, but never leave you in remoteness. To have genuine friend is fun, be it in your bad mood or with good food, you will always find them beside or around you. “Sab theek ho jaega ” ,“milke kar lenge yaar”, “chill mar buddy” these are not only sentences, but reassurance that someone is there for you through thick and thin. They can illuminate the gloomiest moment of your life by simply cracking some illogical joke or doing some crazy act. And they can even make your special day more special just being a part of it. That’s friendship that’s fun.

“No faith, No Friendship” Friendship without faith is like body without soul. A friend is someone who has more faith in you then you have in yourself. If you say I can’t do it they reply you can, are ho jaega, koshish to kar. They are someone who can see the truth and pain in you when you are fooling everyone else. It takes years to build faith and trust, seconds to break and forever to repair. Hence, run the chariot of friendship on the wheels of trust and faith. 

“R”- “Reliability and Respect” -Friend is someone you can always rely upon.  You know they can be viciously honest and upfront with you. They can say something which you may dislike or disagree, but you know they can never do back bitching or stab you in the back and you may never have to say that infamous Latin phrase “Et tu, Brute?” Remember disagreement is beauty of a relationship; it shows that both have equal share in the relationship which they have built together brick by brick. And there is no space for totalitarianism or despotism. 

“I”- “Interest”- A true friend is genuinely interested in you as a person. They are interested in your share of in complexities, fear and achievements, joys and life. They are interested in who you are , not who you can be for them.Friendship must not persuade you to be a different person; it must be all about accepting the way you are with all your flaws and features. 

“E”- “Energy”- Friends pick you up when you are down, are sad mar ho , ghumne chalte hai , “weekend ka kya plan hai”

and bestow you the energy to move on and believe in yourself. They never try to pull you down, if you have some who try to pull you down then I would suggest you to push  them back but true friends don’t. 

“N”- “Nothing”- They say “ we need something to be a Friend” but i believe “we need nothing to be a Friend”. We need not to have any condition, declaration, promise or anything in black and white. Friendship must be unconditional , unapologetic and unadulterated. 

“D”- “Distance”- Sometimes owing to the commitments of life, we fail to meet or call or even message to our friends on customary. Therefore,  I think the last letter of “Friend” is D, Distance. We may get distanced from many of our old friends, back then we could not even imagine a life without them but time flies so we. But i stalwartly believe although miles may separate you, but a true friend is never far away. A true friend is always there in your mind and memories, in your heart and hiccups and in your songs and stories.

Wish you all a very happy bonding of friendship. William Shakespeare quoted, “ A friend is one that knows you as you are , understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still gently allows you to grow.